We cannot always "shine"

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But that`s OK.. Admitting our sorrow and grief is a valuable step to a better world of honesty and truth

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Are these ”happy” assemblies, which many networks represent a risk for exclusion?

Yes… I think so. What happens, for example when a sadly past catch up with you or you suffer serious illness or grief?
Are you staying here than? To say what? I see no forum for them since the theory doesn’t exist. The theory of people in pain.
No since the theory is that we are all chosen our own happiness and by thinking in the right way, whatever happens we will stay happy and feeling blessed. But already on my short time on these networks I have met many who belonged to those who wanted to “shine” and did so and also non egotistically shared their belief with others.

That’s beautiful. But when the “Sorrow” trip a person up, and they cannot shine they stop writing. Many have send me letters so I know that. Now when they are needed us the most they do not stay so we can comfort them. That’s just too sad. I do feel for all these that thought that there only mission in life was to share the light and when they got caught by the shadows they feel ashamed instead of asking for our help. We do not even notice they are gone. New ”believers” will come and replace them.

This is the weakest link in the "shine and light" theory or shall I say religion. There is no place for sadness and sorrow. So that means when your light is gone you have to go too. Make me cry but also frustrated. As long as their spiritual battery keeps them shining they will be here but when it is spent they have to face their own darkness without a ray of light from us, the others.

Many people ought to use their own light to lighten up there own dark shadows instead of getting burned out by giving away ”borrowed ” rays of light. That doest benefit the peace in the world.

No... we must accept that there are dark periods in our lives and we must create space for these feelings so we who still has some energy in our batteries can shine for them who need it the most.
These Networks are not a church where we have to say ”Amen”. These fantastic opportunities to come together so many people must allow us to have different opinions and place for everyone. To learn understanding and broaden our horizons That will make us grow.
It must be ”high ceilings” in any ”faith” who want to survive.

We must search to enclose all not exclude. By making people understand that it is OK, as in this case, to stay in a shiny and brightening ”world” even if your own personal life is a hell.

We do understand. Or don’t we?

I have made this group for all of us who are working for a good purpose.; The peace
But dare to admit that life can be a terrible mess where we need the light of others because our own batteries are exhausted. and that is OK. We do not have to leave this "world" we just need ears to listen and eyes that can see.
After all we are just human *smile*

So welcome to the imperfect group that I am proud to belong to *smile*

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Comment by Leah D (Pixie) on July 22, 2011 at 9:47pm: Hello dear brother Kenneth.. sorry to hear you have a summer flue :(

I send you healing light.. ..

on it's way to you .now bro..with luv & hugss...

Oh, and I found that if you click on last page number will find recent posts/comments..in groups anyway,hope this helps my dear friends..

Comment by Leah D (Pixie) on July 22, 2011 at 4:13pm: Dearest Hussain Jack,

Who is it that you are writing such poetry of 'shame'?? Shame for who or..??

I guess I do not understand your words meanings?

Hugs & love dear friend xx

Leah (aka Pixie)

Comment by Leah D (Pixie) on July 22, 2011 at 4:06pm: Oh, I see now, when I commented I could see recent posts..comments. Yes,Kenneth & Appalonia ,hussain jack..this hunting for recent posts is very backwords & just wrong!! Why would do such a thing??? and this slow activity & death of what was once such a thriving community is painful.I come by and maybe 1 other person is here too,is sad. I LOVE this group, gunilla's other groups and OUR GLOBAL FAMILY/COMMUNITY ,perhaps is why myself and so many others spend more time on facebook & other sites..is why I do. Now this back words comments mess too!! Ach!

To Stupid Ning.....

Comment by Leah D (Pixie) on July 22, 2011 at 3:54pm: Hello Gunilla & all,

Is very strange? I came by group as I had several email notifications of comments here,but on group & my page,others profile pages -it shows older & oldest comments 1st,how weird??? I can't even find 'most recent' comments here,or on my page??? Also,now comment space is on bottom of page?? very confusing..? Hope all is well my friends.

Many blessings & big Smiles for you :)

Comment by Apolonia on July 22, 2011 at 1:05pm

Comment by kenneth alfsson on July 22, 2011 at 8:15am: Well ... i am just fine apolonia ,just have some summer flue ... things who dont killl makes you stronger ;). Yes hope it´s getting better, as gunilla wrote " you have search to find yuor comments" as it is now. Glad to hear you are well,hope your summer is great :) <3

Comment by Apolonia on July 22, 2011 at 12:20am: Yes you are right Kenneth: it's not big fun to look for newest posts... But maybe they will change it for the better... <3

Comment by kenneth alfsson on July 22, 2011 at 12:05am: This is not fun at all... it should be the other way in order... newest first then older!!!

So they havent use the brain when they change the order.... that is my opinion.

How are you my friends... hope all is fine with you Ipeace is not what it has :( ....

Comment by hussain jack M. on July 14, 2011 at 2:07pm: Where shall we bury our shame?
Where, in what desolate place,
Hide the last wreck of a name
Broken and stain'd by disgrace?
Death may dissever the chain,
Oppression will cease when we 're gone;
But the dishonour, the stain,
Die as we may, will live on.

Was it for this we sent out
Liberty's cry from our shore?
Was it for this that her shout
Thrill'd to the world's very core?
Thus to live cowards and slaves! -
Oh, ye free-hearts that lie dead,
Do you not, ev'n in your graves,
Shudder, as o'er you we tread?

Comment by hussain jack M. on July 14, 2011 at 2:05pm: Shame, shame!   My heart still craves for fame.Fame, fame! What do I need it for As long as I am chosen By God Himself To participate eternally In His cosmic Game?~
Disobedience,   Shame on you! You are The worst possible extremist In God-rejection.~
Before you seek fame,   Can you not see shame Is standing right in front of you?~
You will not be devoured   By shame and guilt If you just kindle the flames Of your aspiration-heart With God's smiling Compassion-Eye.~
I shall try To shield you from shameOnly when you do not try To blame the world For your downfall.