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Bil is marrying the girl mil michael kors sale australia chose for him Sorry, but this is going to be really long!I need to get this all out! In my culture, arranged marriages are still prevalent.I would say it happens in about 50% of marriages today in my culture.Me and dh were dating for 8 years, and then got married after both sets of parents approved and agreed to our union. When dh and i got engaged, mil seemed happy enough.She didnt seem really enthused, but never gave me any indication that she wasnt happy.She has never treated me badly, and has always pretty much been nice to me although sometimes it seems like she only does it cause dh financially supports his parents completely, and if she ever did something to upset me or dh, they are scared dh would cut them off financially. Anyway, a few months after we got engaged, she went and told the parents of a girl(The father of the girl is an old friend of my fil), that her younger son would marry their youngest daughter at this point my BIL had not agreed to it.I didnt know this until a week after we got married.A week after we got married, dh and i moved to another city.This girl added all my sil's, my mil, me, dh and my fil on facebook.She started commenting on all our wedding pictures that one of my sils put up.She was commenting things like"At our wedding(Her and bil)We are going to have this" "When we get married(Her and bil). "And all my sil's completley forgot about enjoying the moments from our wedding that just passed, and started talking to her about her wedding that wasnt even confirmed yet!Keep in mind, bil had not yet agreed to marry this girl.Anyway, she kept at it like this up until now.Always commenting and making her presense known to everyone.It really irritates me! About 6 months after we got married, there was a major religious holdiay.In our culture, on the first religious holiday after you get married, your in laws are supposed to give you something really good.For example, my parents gave my sil(Brothers wife)$1000 on her first religious holiday.I knew i wouldnt get something as big as that, since they are financially dependent on my dh.Anyway, they gave me a simple cultural outfit.I was a little upset about it, but my husband tried to cheer me up by telling me how nice i looked in it and what not.My oldest sil has no filter at all, and just talks, talks, talks.So she ended up telling michael kors bags online me in one of her talking fests, that my mil got bil's"Fiance"A brand new smart phone, and a michael kors watch.I was really shocked, but didnt say anything to dh. Anyway, she kept up her ways of pushing herself into everything that had to do with the family, and the family would include her everything, even though bil still hadnt agreed to marry her.I found out in september, that after trying for almost one year, dh and i are expecting.Mil seemed really happy about it.That is, until she started trying to give my thunder away again to the other girl(First time was right after we got engaged she promised this girl her son would marry her, second time was right after we got married).2 weeks after we told them we are expecting, she started pressuring BIL into formally getting engaged to this girl.For about a week, bil kept saying he wasnt ready.But mil persisted.Finally he agreed, and gave her a ring.The night that he gave her a ring(Last week), she posted a pic on facebook and tagged me and all DH sibilings in the pic, stating it was the best night of her life. My mil is pretty active on facebook.As soon as bil agreed to marry this girl and gave her a ring, she took them out for lunch(She has never taken me and dh out for anything).She has posted pics on facebook, and in all the pics, she is hugging this girl so close, with a huge smile on her face.Mil has also been making comments to family members about how truly happy she is about this union.She continues to shower gifts on this girl(On religious holidays, on her birthday, and now that they are michael kors bags australia engaged), and has only given me one relgious holiday gift and one birthday gift since DH and I have been formally engaged. I know i probably sound really petty, and just jealous of her, but its not that.This girl has been a thorn in my side since i got married she never let me enjoy my honeymoon period of marriage, and now that i am so excited about my pregnancy, they are not letting me enjoy it, because it is being overshadowed by her engagement, and by my mil telling everyone how overjoyed she is about them.And im hating on my mil for making it look like she is way happier about bil's engagement than she ever was about mine and dh's marriage. Today dh was on the phone with her, on speakerphone, and the whole time she was just praising this girl, and how happy everyone is about their engagement.And then when dh was going to hang up with her, she casually asked about me, and if i was feeling ok(Cause i have been having really bad nausea throughout this pregnancy).The only people who need be centered on your pregnancy are you and dh. Let me say this because i think it is something you need to learn to own: You control your own happiness. Accept that they aren't that into you.Pass the bean dip and excuse yourself from the conversation or change the subject if mil, sil, michael kors australia online or fsil are aggravating you. As far as the money, gifts, and all that stuff goes, i think pp's have it covered.And yes, it would bother me that fsil is getting expensive gifts on my dime an i'm not.I just think you are giving them too much headspace, and that you're way too jealous.I mean,"Stealing your thunder"?C'mon! What happens if your dh becomes disabled or dies?Do you have enough to support yourself and your baby? Culturally, is your mil going to show up at your door for 6 months after your baby arrives?Does she expect to live with you or raise your child? It seems to me that you just want to whine because i am fairly certain that you aren't going to change anything. Your mil isn't that into you.I'd consider it a gift and hope that it continues.I wouldn't want anyone who was too lazy to support themselves and who enables their children to be useless(Bil)And dependent(Bil)And shallow(Sil)And doormatty to be all up in my business. Don't make your happiness dependent on the attention of others.That is a terrible lesson and burden to give your child. Look, drop the future sil issue.Block people's feeds on facebook and block them from commenting on your pictures/posts if you are getting riled up about this because of facebook. Limit in person contact or redirect conversation back to the baby if you are feeling annoyed. About the financial support, i know other countries have cultures that direct children to support family members, but honestly, i still have a hard time viewing it as anything but taking away financially from the next generation in order to support the older generation.

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