Unreasonable anger is just disguised grief... - iPeace.us2024-03-29T12:33:48Zhttps://ipeace.us/forum/topics/unreasonable-anger-is-just?groupUrl=wecannotalwaysshine&commentId=2217368%3AComment%3A2295212&groupId=2217368%3AGroup%3A1484494&feed=yes&xn_auth=noControlling anger brings peac…tag:ipeace.us,2011-06-07:2217368:Comment:29707872011-06-07T07:11:43.877ZGOPI KANTA GHOSHhttps://ipeace.us/profile/GOPIKANTAGHOSH
Controlling anger brings peace...
Controlling anger brings peace... *smile* Yeah knowing that mak…tag:ipeace.us,2011-02-16:2217368:Comment:27777402011-02-16T20:23:16.176Zgunilla caissonhttps://ipeace.us/profile/gunillacaisson
*smile* Yeah knowing that make it easier to deal with our children's rage
*smile* Yeah knowing that make it easier to deal with our children's rage Truetag:ipeace.us,2011-02-16:2217368:Comment:27777292011-02-16T11:45:23.716ZGOPI KANTA GHOSHhttps://ipeace.us/profile/GOPIKANTAGHOSH
True
True Yes there is always an explan…tag:ipeace.us,2009-12-12:2217368:Comment:23196602009-12-12T17:01:44.669Zgunilla caissonhttps://ipeace.us/profile/gunillacaisson
Yes there is always an explanation, That doesn`t mean that the anger isn`t unreasonable, since it has<br />
nothing to do with the fact why a person exploded. The reason is not to be found in what was said or done , but within the person that overreacted... And when we look closer we will see that it is often about disguised grief...
Yes there is always an explanation, That doesn`t mean that the anger isn`t unreasonable, since it has<br />
nothing to do with the fact why a person exploded. The reason is not to be found in what was said or done , but within the person that overreacted... And when we look closer we will see that it is often about disguised grief... I do not know what love has t…tag:ipeace.us,2009-12-01:2217368:Comment:22952122009-12-01T22:41:40.661Zgunilla caissonhttps://ipeace.us/profile/gunillacaisson
I do not know what love has to do with intelligence. I must have missed something here. I think Love is the root of many things but I have never reflected upon this connection *smile* Have to start now...<br />
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Of course we shall not tell anyone that their rage is because of grief that I`m sure in that moment will make him/her still more angry...But for those who want to help such a person it may be good to know, so the judgment will be a bit milder...'smile'
I do not know what love has to do with intelligence. I must have missed something here. I think Love is the root of many things but I have never reflected upon this connection *smile* Have to start now...<br />
<br />
Of course we shall not tell anyone that their rage is because of grief that I`m sure in that moment will make him/her still more angry...But for those who want to help such a person it may be good to know, so the judgment will be a bit milder...'smile' you're really talking to one…tag:ipeace.us,2009-12-01:2217368:Comment:22950932009-12-01T21:14:23.990Zmikal haleyhttps://ipeace.us/profile/rebelnews5
you're really talking to one of the really important things.<br />
<br />
<br />
BUT -- did you ever have the situation happen<br />
where<br />
someone tells someone else that their rage is unjustified - and as such, that reaction<br />
makes the rage worse!<br />
<br />
<br />
it really is true that when Love and Rage are combined, they are the most powerful combo -<br />
<br />
and rage without love -- doesit<br />
self-destruct? does it<br />
short itself out?<br />
<br />
my theory is that Love is the root of all real Intelligence...<br />
<br />
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you're really talking to one of the really important things.<br />
<br />
<br />
BUT -- did you ever have the situation happen<br />
where<br />
someone tells someone else that their rage is unjustified - and as such, that reaction<br />
makes the rage worse!<br />
<br />
<br />
it really is true that when Love and Rage are combined, they are the most powerful combo -<br />
<br />
and rage without love -- doesit<br />
self-destruct? does it<br />
short itself out?<br />
<br />
my theory is that Love is the root of all real Intelligence...<br />
<br />
------- When we explode , which must…tag:ipeace.us,2009-08-04:2217368:Comment:19160992009-08-04T11:51:00.418Zgunilla caissonhttps://ipeace.us/profile/gunillacaisson
When we explode , which must mean that we have collected much frustration under long time and that the lid to the pressure cooker can not resist any longer. So I think<br />
that much of the insanity of anger,, that we are seeing around us or read about and that often leads to very destructive actions, would reduce
When we explode , which must mean that we have collected much frustration under long time and that the lid to the pressure cooker can not resist any longer. So I think<br />
that much of the insanity of anger,, that we are seeing around us or read about and that often leads to very destructive actions, would reduce So true if we all allowed our…tag:ipeace.us,2009-08-03:2217368:Comment:19148482009-08-03T22:34:51.268Zgunilla caissonhttps://ipeace.us/profile/gunillacaisson
So true if we all allowed ourselves to show all kind of feelings we should not have to explode in such an unreasonable anger... "like a pressure cooker " ,exact
So true if we all allowed ourselves to show all kind of feelings we should not have to explode in such an unreasonable anger... "like a pressure cooker " ,exact I think we can see this every…tag:ipeace.us,2009-08-03:2217368:Comment:19148112009-08-03T22:18:28.476Zgunilla caissonhttps://ipeace.us/profile/gunillacaisson
I think we can see this everywhere. Specially when children get an "anger attack", one is pretty sure that it`s sadness behind and therefore we must meet them there... Not always easy . But it passes more quickly if we can se the sorrow behind and react accordingly
I think we can see this everywhere. Specially when children get an "anger attack", one is pretty sure that it`s sadness behind and therefore we must meet them there... Not always easy . But it passes more quickly if we can se the sorrow behind and react accordingly