Forgiveness is letting go of the need for revenge and releasing negative thoughts of resentment. It is very important for us to forgive our loves ones. Forgiveness is an extremely valuable skill to have.

“To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.” Robert Muller

What if your best friend betrayed you or cheated you in any way and broken your trust?

I know it hurts and becomes difficult to forget. Though you will forgive him being a best friend but forgetting is something which becomes impossible to do.

What do you think is the best way to forgive and forget a loved one ?

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very, very true.
whenever my ego feels hurt, frustrated, disappointed, resented, offended... i forgive myself for having judged, .. desired things, situations or people to be different,.. for having built expectations, .. for being not able to love unconditionally.
As i take full responsability of my sufference, there is nobody to forgive and i find myself free and in peace.
The problem is even if you forgive the person or organisation who caused you misery have they learned what they did wrong and are they causing misery to other people,there is a very thin line between forgiving and allowing destructive people to be free to cause more harm and misery to others that is we have law systems,police,armies but even they have become corrupted so the people are having to police the authorities so its a constant balancing act between right and wrong and sometime one dominates the other.
best way to forget? I lost my ego.. did anybody find it?
Put yourself in the one you are mad at's shoes, ask yourself if they did what they did on purpose or intentionally harm you, if no, then why should you be mad? They don't want you mad at the, and you probably don't want to stay mad at them either. If they did intentionally do it, well, let them know it hurt you, and so long as they don't do it again, you won;t be mad at them.
Also, if somebody who doesn't like you tries to get you angry for fun, don't let them, they'll sure be annoyed if you keep forgiving them :)
I've done it a few times where I'm always nice to people who don't like me, and then they wind up liking me because of it...


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