Nothing is more obvious than that the love of someone or something makes us portray the person or phenomenon in the most wonderful colors that regardless of how the matters do stand on that issue?
Just take a child for example Have never heard a parent say that their child is ugly just because their love for the child has been placed on the child's external (been projected) and ”created' just the beautiful child they see. This never the less what a more objective environment might think. But parents do not lie. "They tell what they "see" through their love projection glasses
Then, many of us love children why we are almost everybody
uses these strong love glasses when we see children in general. We see the cute and cuddly in the child. Those who do not have this ability to project the love on children in general and their own in particular, must be emotionally handicapped. Since they may not own any love to ”lay out " on someone else.
They may know only hate, anger and sadness and that it is what they projected on their children who obviously get influenced by the ”views” they bear.
When you are in love you almost always find your partner beautiful When the love is gone you start to really ”see” him/her and find a far too long nose, too small mouth, etc. :) Yes, on the whole he/she is rather ugly.
How can it be so? Yes, just because you have no longer the love glasses on witch means that all positive projection are withdrawn.. Maybe we now even dislike our ex partner and than come other projective glasses on *smile* (less positive)
So LOVE is wonderful. All and everybody become beautiful. The grey everyday realism is gone . The surroundings are shimmering in red and rose and the whole world is smiling against us, . What does it then matter whether it is a projection or not, we just have to enjoy the situation as long as it lasts and be grateful for it and for he or she who put our glasses on the nose ; ).