We cannot always "shine"

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But that`s OK.. Admitting our sorrow and grief is a valuable step to a better world of honesty and truth

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Are these ”happy” assemblies, which many networks represent a risk for exclusion?

Yes… I think so. What happens, for example when a sadly past catch up with you or you suffer serious illness or grief?
Are you staying here than? To say what? I see no forum for them since the theory doesn’t exist. The theory of people in pain.
No since the theory is that we are all chosen our own happiness and by thinking in the right way, whatever happens we will stay happy and feeling blessed. But already on my short time on these networks I have met many who belonged to those who wanted to “shine” and did so and also non egotistically shared their belief with others.

That’s beautiful. But when the “Sorrow” trip a person up, and they cannot shine they stop writing. Many have send me letters so I know that. Now when they are needed us the most they do not stay so we can comfort them. That’s just too sad. I do feel for all these that thought that there only mission in life was to share the light and when they got caught by the shadows they feel ashamed instead of asking for our help. We do not even notice they are gone. New ”believers” will come and replace them.

This is the weakest link in the "shine and light" theory or shall I say religion. There is no place for sadness and sorrow. So that means when your light is gone you have to go too. Make me cry but also frustrated. As long as their spiritual battery keeps them shining they will be here but when it is spent they have to face their own darkness without a ray of light from us, the others.

Many people ought to use their own light to lighten up there own dark shadows instead of getting burned out by giving away ”borrowed ” rays of light. That doest benefit the peace in the world.

No... we must accept that there are dark periods in our lives and we must create space for these feelings so we who still has some energy in our batteries can shine for them who need it the most.
These Networks are not a church where we have to say ”Amen”. These fantastic opportunities to come together so many people must allow us to have different opinions and place for everyone. To learn understanding and broaden our horizons That will make us grow.
It must be ”high ceilings” in any ”faith” who want to survive.

We must search to enclose all not exclude. By making people understand that it is OK, as in this case, to stay in a shiny and brightening ”world” even if your own personal life is a hell.

We do understand. Or don’t we?

I have made this group for all of us who are working for a good purpose.; The peace
But dare to admit that life can be a terrible mess where we need the light of others because our own batteries are exhausted. and that is OK. We do not have to leave this "world" we just need ears to listen and eyes that can see.
After all we are just human *smile*

So welcome to the imperfect group that I am proud to belong to *smile*

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Comment by gunilla caisson on December 8, 2011 at 11:42pm: "Silent Night, Holy Night" But not for all...

So the Christmas is coming closer and with it the anxiety of all those children living in emotional and economical misery...

The Holy Night is not for those children whose parents are getting drunk and fight in some kind of missunderstood celebration, where those children who don't become abused themselves are the lucky ones...
The Holy Night is not for those children who can not eat themselves fill, this festival, when so many others are eating themselves sick
The Holy Night is not for those children whose parents cannot afford a single present when other children are drowning in theirs

The Holy Night is simply Not for the " Barefoot Children"

I have tried to translate a poem, I wrote last year, into English. A desperate way to try to illuminate the situation in Christmas time, for these children
If you see these children better then my linguistic errors, I`m pleased *smile*

Silent Night, Holy Night

But not for children in total despair
Longing only for a world that is fair
Watching the star in the peak of the three
While dreaming light-year away to be free

There are no connection between Christmas and peace
For all those who don´t owe a familiar ease
The holy night is covered up with sorrow
And the child just waiting for a better “tomorrow

Waiting for the night to grow light
Days that will turn from black into white
The child is sleeping in the crib of straw
Untouched by a protecting Law

Three vice-man in the desert were coming
All caring gifts, presents and a beautiful thing
Prepared to give to the newborn king
Who this night the world was given

No lefts over for the children of today
Which cannot benefit what the laws say
And the light from the star that guided the there
Don’t shine for those which no longer can see.

In a dejected darkness where the stars died down
There are nothing but fear in the black hole thrown
A temporary forgetfulness spread its covering around
the children of the world and their unhealed wounds

Comment by Apolonia on November 8, 2011 at 12:09pm

Comment by gunilla caisson on October 11, 2011 at 12:53pm: Thank You Jussara. You are a real friend and you keep this group alive through your comments and beautiful pictures.

I'm so grateful *smile'

Wish you all the best.

Comment by Apolonia on September 7, 2011 at 3:15am

Comment by kenneth alfsson on July 31, 2011 at 8:16pm: i had to correct my self dear friends , the right adres is http://friendcommunity.spruz.com

Icouldent use the letter s in friendcommmunity of some reason....

But i want you to know that the correct name is Friendscommunity even if the link adress dont.

With love Kenneth

Comment by kenneth alfsson on July 30, 2011 at 3:38pm: I need someone to help me out on friendscommuniyt news page, someone who is awake and alert when it comes to children and othter horible things who happends. The one who are willing to help me out are getting almost free hands and also became an admin.The have to be admin role because they must have access so they can create the news page as they like ( maybe add some more page to have categories).

You have to be some kind who care for the children/ humananity..... it is a huge + if you see you self as child abuse fighter.

With love Kenneth

Ps: feel free to visit Friendscommunity and dont be afraid to leave a comment in skysa bar if you like.

Friendscommunity

Comment by Apolonia on July 24, 2011 at 1:29pm

Comment by Apolonia on July 24, 2011 at 1:28pm

Comment by kenneth alfsson on July 24, 2011 at 12:08pm: If i could i should make all The Child Within shine every minute we breath!

Comment by kenneth alfsson on July 24, 2011 at 11:44am: Thanks so much leah dear sis... Apolonia you have so right,when it comes to true friends there in no bottom in the heart.

The love will always show the way and lead the us....

It´s this pic empty? no i have fill it with so much love to my friends... each black pixel is made of sympathy,careing,love,.... what will you fill each pixel with my friends?

With love Kenneth Alfsson *smile*