To all my friends,
When my mother was alive I used to take advice from her whenever I felt that I am in trouble or double-minded. Though my mother is no more in this world as I hope she will be resting in her grave, but now I am requesting my mothers, sisters and daughters as I am feeling easiness. I have joined the Emergency Response Unit established by the government of Pakistan for providing relief to internally displaced persons of tribal areas where Pakistan army has been conducting operation. Initially I was enthusiatic about my new job as I was thinking that I shall deliver something in my present job. My job was also a source of happiness for me and my wife Fatima. But now I am feeling uneasiness in my present job. I want to leave this job, but this will be source of trouble for my wife Fatima as I think she is already heart patient. She will not bear the news that I shall be going jobless again. Now I am really in difficult situation and needing your advices. Your advices may change my life as you have always guided me to the right path. Just consider yourself as my mothers, sisters and daughters and give me advice what should I do at the moment. I am sorry for bothering you again and again, but I am needing your help as you are my friends.
May God the Great give you all the happiness in this life and in the life hereafter if there is any. Actually my bosses have been giving me very bad treatment. Rulers of Pakistan do not consider other people as human beings. They always used insulting language with their subordinates. Please open your heart and give me the advice. Again thank you very much.

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Dearest Muhammad

I see you are in a difficult situation. I don't know what advice to give you for the best beyond follow your heart.

How very sad that your employers do not treat you or other employees properly - there must be so much collective pain for this to be so. I do know that the practice of blessing everyone can make a huge difference - blessing without judgment regardless of how much judgement is being put on you. When someone treats you badly bless them - even if it is in silence - they will feel it. Bless the diamond that is deep inside everyone regardless of what you see on the outside. If you can stay where you are for a while and continue this practice often I really feel that you will be making a difference from the inside of the situation. At the same time perhaps you can be looking for another job where you will be treated well and where your skills will be welcomed. When you find the new job you can move from the ERU - though you may find that you are making a difference by this time and no longer wish to move. Remaining in the employment you have for now will save Fatima from stress as you would not be in an unemployed situation.

I hope this helps. Without being close to the situation it is not easy to know for sure what advice to give - however, I felt that this was what I should say to you.

Love, hugs and abundant blessings to you
Janey :)
Dear Muhammad,
I just read your mail and can feel your problem. I agree very much with Janey and do use this blessing technique myself. It helps you not being hurt by the other person - it gives you kind of protection. A person who does'nt respect another has personal problems, has probably never received loving care himself. So he is not able to behave differently. I hope we all will become aware of this and treat each other with love. Please try it an you will see.
With much love,
Antonia

My dear friends Jane Young and Antonia,
That was the advice which I am needing at the moment. Thank you very much for your advice. I shall remain in this office till the moment I can tolerate the situation. I shall try to the maximum to keep my bosses happy. Actually today I was really upsent when I was reprimanded by my boss without any reason. I think I can do my job. This is in the nature of Pakistani rulers to insult other people. I shall tolerate the situation.
Thank you very much for your advice. I think you will not mind that I am bothering you again and again. But actually I have been learning from you. I have been learning love and kindness from you. Today I was already upsent as terrorists have carried out a bomb blast in Khar, near my home. After the blast there was indiscrimate firing.
I shall be praying for your peace and happiness. May God the Great give you all the happiness in this life and in the life hereafter if there is any.
Much much love for all of you.
I'll send you and your wife blessings and ease. I know it is incredibly difficult for you. Sometimes when life is so difficult it is difficult to believe that things can improve and God has better possibilities for you. Bless those you work for and also give blessing to yourself so you can know you are worthy of better situation and miracles. peace maggie

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