She never uses the word "should."
She is innately aware that she and he are not separate - therefore, he will reflect how she sees herself.
She accepts him as perfect, innocent, whole and complete. She can only do this if she sees herself that way.
So, she loves herself.
She is grounded in acceptance, gratitude, and love.
While the world churns and turns, she remains centered and at peace.
She complains about nothing - realizing "nothing" is all she'd be complaining about - and wouldn't lower her frequency no matter what appearances present her.
Again, she loves herself - and intimately understands that all her relationships reflect that love.
She is awake.
She allows NOTHING she values to come from a relationship. (That means her relationship with source and only source sets her value to herself; she knows intimately that everyone in her life are her equals - each equally deserving of her love.)
She lives in the moment, now, and knows the past and future, existing only in her perceptions, are unreal.
She stands in a river of experiences and accepts what life presents her as perfect always and in all ways.
She is convinced that the universe is conspiring in her favor always and in all ways.
Yet again, she loves herself as whole and perfect and inspires that full appreciation and full acceptance in all her relationships.
She's not afraid; she is compassionate towards others and inspires their release of fear thoughts without judging them.
When I look at her, I see an easy smile in her eyes.
note - while I titled this “She,” not only the title but the all the content could interchangeably be “He”; within non-dual awareness, can there be a she distinct from he?