Being a woman who speaks her mind, and people who are quiet

I have ALWAYS spoken up!! I sometimes do so thinking "I shouldn't" but then WHAMO ....it comes out, totally me, totally open, totally BAM POW WHAM-O!!!
I try to hold it in (sometimes) I try to be quiet (often) I TRY to not say something ....but something in me tells it all. I am relieved, I express myself, and the other person knows what I am thinking. It is me. Take it or leave it.
Sort of.
Sometimes I say too much, but as I see it, I see people saying too little.
and there I am....alone, being blunt, open, extrovert, myself.
I still think it is better to be like this. But sometimes, feeling I may be the only one (just about), I think that perhaps I have to learn to be quieter and LESS like my real self.
And you? But I already know.....most people do not open and tell how they really are. And most likely, this blog will just sit here unanswered as so many blogs are....and the quiet people will continue being quiet...and we extroverts will be the ones who open up.

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Comment by Stephanie on November 2, 2009 at 10:10pm: Comment by Stephanie Seymour 2 seconds ago
Delete Comment My sister used to say "Just think you are you and I am me" Oh WOW!!! It seemed oh so deep years ago, now, it just makes me smile as you can see in my photo to the left. : )......or is that
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(looks like I have to pluck my eyebrows on "photo" above...ha HA!)

Comment by Leah D (Pixie) on October 30, 2009 at 4:03pm: LOL, (now that you know what this means) Steph, my friend..this is Sooooo ME!! haha, good to know I am not the only one that speaks my mind.As I have matured I have learned to be a bit more tactful, er well most of the time. I try to be qioet,sometimes..too. but this is not ME. As I wrote in 15,000 stories discussion,even here on internet I am me,I do not hide behind a maskor try to pretend to be who I am not. Yes, I do tend to be a bit more polite here. I always,even in "real" life try to be polite. Often,however things just sort of blurt out of my mouth as I am thinking them,no filter of politeness first,LOL...All who know me personally,know not to take offense,as am just being ME.
Thanks for just always being YOU.
I like this,very much. No mask, no hiding behing pc screen,you just being wonderfully outspoken YOU.
Love
Hugs n smiles :-))