All about relationships and intimacy...peace and happiness.
Many of us have this fear of intimacy…fear of relationships.
Definition of intimacy varies from person to person, it could be an emotional bonding and connecting to the other person whether its physical or mental and it is always a give and take process, the more u give the more u receive, its reaching out to the other person and the good moments you spend together, knowing each other irrespective of the fact how long its going to last and that you might get hurt in the process. If you are getting joy and fulfillment in the relationship, you should go along with it and live the moment to the fullest. Nothing could be wrong if it is giving you happiness leaving aside the taboo of social norms attached to it.
Relationships are all about joys, sorrows, happiness and pain, love and desire, longing for each other, the pleasure of being together, getting comfort in each others presence, and just a little touch can take us to the heights of ecstasy, it's all about the right connection. Therefore we should make every relationship as fulfilling as possible because the key to happiness is fulfillment...sometimes even a few moments spent with someone can give you the happiness and experience of a lifetime..
Getting into a relationship could be disastrous if we are already committed or in a marriage but then looking deeply into the matter, there must be something lacking in that commitment, like lack of love or physical intimacy or maybe loneliness that led us to get into a new relationship or sometimes it could just be destiny as there are some connections which come from far behind like the tides of river taking us into a different world which is beautiful yet so dangerous and unpredictable, so very difficult to understand. Like the saying; "Go on a path which is unexplored and adventurous, never cease in your search for love and happiness, by taking risks can we triumph in the end.”
Every relationship is unique and has a different place in our lives and we should learn to respect each relationship in its own way. Any relationship which has love and depth is special and specially those which make us feel complete in ourselves, some relationships cannot be defined but still they exist and some heart connections are destined. Can we fight are destiny now!
Relationships are all about a certain comfort level between two individuals, relating to each other in a positive way and accepting each other without any conditions, without the fear of intimacy, or else it could bring sourness in a relationship.
Therefore however the relationship might be, it should be so fulfilling and satisfying so that it is remembered even when it"s over and brings a smile on our face rather than a tear in the eyes, an absolute perfect relationship..giving us peace and love, difficult to find but not impossible...