How DO people deal with problems?

How do people deal with problems? In ALL different ways! Technical problems are solved, but it's the emotional problem that isn't easy to find "the simple way" to solve. Those involving people are the difficult ones to approach and resolve. If someone is used to getting things out in the open, and finds others keeping things in, THIS in itself is a problem.
I can't understand why someone else doesn't open up, and that person doesn't understand why I have the need to open up so much. These two ways of dealing with a problem clash, creating yet another problem.
How then do we know the right way to solve problems? Which is the right way to get differing viewpoints on the same track so that problems can be solved?
Right here, on this beloved site iPeace, we have learned to be more accepting, deal with different viewpoints many times completely opposite from our own. I can understand when life and problems can be overwhelming. It can actually be too much to have to get it out. I am learning that in my own life and it can be frustrating and discouraging. Problems exist sometimes that cannot be solved. It can become a dark cloud over ones head that doesn't go away.
I would appreciate hearing people's views on this...

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Comment by Daton O Fullard on February 1, 2010 at 10:24am: Hi Steph..Great Subject by the way..I do not know if this will help provide some clarity..But the questions you raise are both genuine and necessary..You say there are some problems that cannot be solved..I do not believe this..Lets look simply for a moment at Why we fail to Live well..and How we will live well to fail..In many different cultures Around the world..Why we live is not often explained very well to Our Children..I have come to find out.. So many Parents do not grasp this concept very well..

We were placed here on this Planet in my own opinion..To solve this Life's and our own particular life problems..It doesn't matter whether it is yours or mine..Or what race ethnicity gender etc..You I and we will certainly be faced with the fact that we do have problems..Now just how well you or I choose to somehow begin to address or fail to address them ..Will determine how well you live and how well you feel about your own individual Life and life experiences..

For many who fail badly at understanding this..They usually will become by default Problem Creators..
Just because they have not been properly taught how to deal with Life's many different issues and resulting problems..Failure to see know and not feel that you are an effective solver of problems..Will do nothing but diminish your self esteem and self confidence..If you are a poor problem solver..

You will become one or the other..A problem for yourself or for someone else.. Nor a solver or resolver of problems..Failure to become a good or effective problem solver..Does nothing at all to help move Humanity forwards..But failing to do so does do nothing..But create more obstacles and impediments..That do nothing to help us advance..And move forward as a Species..As we each and all exist..Primarily as a critical part of this vast living multi cellular organism of a Global Family.. I could say a lot more on this subject..But I won't so that others who see this will..Thanks for the post..Steph and sharing your thoughts..on this matter..