Loneliness.

Loneliness is being alone, feeling alone with or without anyone. One can be lonely in a crowd too, is it merely a state of the mind or does it really exist..!

We should learn to be happy within ourselves or seek solace in some kind of occupation which brings peace to the mind, loneliness can leave an impact so intense, a strange emptiness which you may have to live with for the rest of your life...so we should not let it creep into our lives…its like a dark night after a bright day, taking us in its embrace, however much we try, we cannot escape from it,same way we cannot run away from loneliness therefore, we should try overcome it whatever way we can…

Life cannot be a bed of roses all the time and what is a rose without a thorn, an eye without a tear and if we do not experience pain, how will we enjoy pleasure. Therefore loneliness adds spice to our lives and it's only after it, can we enjoy togetherness, the feeling of oneness. Being alone is also uniting with our own self giving us peace and pleasure at the same time, pain being a part of it...

Loneliness always brings along with it certain memories of the past, when we are alone; we often tend to go behind into painful times which we want to forget, spoiling our present moment which could have been much more meaningful and worthwhile.

Some people want to stay in a lonely world of their own, maybe it's the circumstances which might have pushed them there, some painful experiences or its by choice, which is most unlikely because everyone wants to feel loved and wanted and vice versa...

Therefore be it aloneness or being together, happiness or sadness, one should find contentment and peace in a positive state of mind and try to find joys around him, overcoming loneliness and bitterness with a feeling of sweet togetherness.

poonam singh.