RASHAD from Pakistan reaches out for help

A LETTER WRITTEN TO ME BY THE VERY KIND RASHAD, A VERY SPECIAL MAN ON IPEACE....PLEASE READ

Dear Stephanie,

Thanks for reply. Yes I know life is very easy there and in many countries. Our life is more worse then you hear in news. I send 100’s of requests to ipeace..... (three) friends send us little support which helps us little that time but we never get any proper funding on annual of monthly basses. We are sending requests to big Churches and organizations from 11 years but no result. Some said Pakistan is not our focus area, some did not even answer some refuse in sweet way. We all are very disappointed all the time, But we are still doing efforts.
I was trying to get US visa because I believe if I meet people there in real and invite them here may be some doors open for our work but unfortunately I did not get success in getting visa because visa officer believe my bank statement is very small. I never understand what they have to do with my bank statement I am going there for the betterment of HDO and HDO have all legal status and visible services, but he did not even see and check the HDO original papers.
We really need partner Churches organizations or individual donors from abroad also. It is becoming very hard for us to keep going all these humanitarian activities right now.
I again request you if you can help us to find a good partner for HDO in US or Italy that will be your big gift to our poor communities. Or You can send us little support Annual or monthly bases that also could make things little easy for us......

Regards, love & peace.
Rashad

MODY THIS IS MY REPLY TO YOU.....MY COMPUTER IS NOT BEHAVING RIGHT NOW!!


I was JUST about to delete your message!
But I didn't.
Perhaps in these cases, these opinions, is it best to write directly to me, in a private email?
First of all, Rashad has given me a great feeling of politeness, and my intuition says that his organization is truthful. I am going with my intuition.
How can one tell when one is honest? How can one tell if someone really needs help? Or if that person will definitely use the money for a group he is talking about?
Some people trust everyone
Some people trust nobody
Some people seem like the most honest people in the world and then, the world folds in and one is fooled...the person was not honest all along.
I feel, however, that perhaps using the words "be sure he is not a scammer" might be unfair. What do you think?
Would it not be better to say "Tell us more about your group, I have doubts having seen bad things happen in other sites...how can we be sure about your group that helps unfortunate people?" Isn't this a better way of comunicating without offending?
We are getting into something interesting here, good thought you had. Just the way of saying it perhaps, not really knowing anyone totally inside.....not having EVER an assurance of 100% that someone is doing something that you think they are.
Must go
thanks for your contribution
think about it
I will too
your friend
Stephanie

WELL THIS COMPUTER OF MINE IS ACTING VERY STRANGELY....CAN YOU IMAGINE I HAVE TO WRITE MODY HIS MESSAGE UP HERE!!! SORRY BUT THAT IS HOW IT IS...THERE ARE WORSE THINGS THAN THIS!

Life is experience. People need help. Some will do lots of things, even dishonestly to get help.
So what does a person do?
We ALL want to believe people!!!
We ALL make mistakes in helping and then later realize we did a mistake.
HOWEVER
we learn about people
we learn about ourselves
we learn about dishonesty, honesty, and what we are made of
it is certainly a way to LEARN
Giving of money isn't so bad, it is when one gives of themselves and then you realize the person was using you ....that is the bad one.
We keep learning, we keep wanting to help, but we are always more careful. Who needs the help really, suffers because of all this.
And we keep reflecting on what to do..........................sometimes one goes with their intuitiion!
And there are many hours in the day to think about all this.......
thank YOU Mody
we will think about these things, won't we!
Stephanie

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Comment by mody Ibrahem on November 1, 2009 at 10:08am
yes i agree with you Stephanie we all learn and we all want to help but to me i learn that i only help when i am sure that my help go in the right way or to the right people and i do not like to be used by any one
any way , thank you for reply to me again
have nice day
peace..
Comment by mody Ibrahem on November 1, 2009 at 2:32am
hi Stephanie ,
thank you for your reply to me up there here
i do trust people till it happened to me more than 2 years ago that i had same situation or same story similar as this Rashad story .and i did offered my help but later on what i find !!
some one came to me and prove that person was a cheater and he got all the help from and many othrs to his self !! can you believe that ?
and can you believe that happened again one more time but by a girl she ask me help cuz she use that donation for help poor children ,and i did help her too !!
cuz i am a person as you said here who trust every one .
but too bad this girl i help her told me later by her self that she is sorry cuz she needs this help ( money )
for her self !!!
since that 2 experiences i start to think and make sure before i help any one
may be i am wrong but what you will think if you have same 2 experience had before ?
i never want or like to offend him o any one else ,
thank you Stephanie .
peace,love
Comment by mody Ibrahem on October 31, 2009 at 2:36pm
Stephanie ,this very touchy story ,it is great thing to help this Rashad ,but !!!
i want to tell you something i been before in other many sites and network and i saw lots of stories same like this now .
so i just ask you to be sure he is not a scammer , cuz i feel that when i read his story now
other ways how we know he tel the truth now ?
thank you dear friend .
peace,love
Comment by Stephanie on October 30, 2009 at 10:21pm
Clicia I am sure that Rashad will be happy to have received a comment, actually two, from you regarding his country which he is so generously helping with his work and life.
Stephanie
Comment by Clicia Pavan on October 30, 2009 at 8:26pm
These are the latest information I received from UNICEF,
I send help,aid to refugees - children
the government and militant forces continues in the North West Frontier Province of Pakistan, over 112.000 residents of South Waziristan have fled their homes. The vast majority of displaced people are women and children. The military operations in the province intensified 32.000 people have had to flee their homes in the past week itself.
© 2009 United States Fund for UNICEF. All rights reserved.1.800.FOR.KIDS
Peace-love
Namaste
Comment by Clicia Pavan on October 30, 2009 at 8:07pm
There is a serious situation of children and women how to return home after the conflict? UNICEF is asking for help beyond the issue of water and food,remedios
According to all Pakistan
authorities and the UN, at least 3 million internally displaced persons (IDPs) have now been registered as a result from recent fighting and on-going military operations against the Taliban in Pakistan's Swat, Buner, and Lower Dir districts. Refugee families are often made up of only women and children, the older men staying behind to care for their homes and crops. UN humanitarian chief John Holmes issued a desperate appeal for hundreds of millions of dollars to help those who have fled the war, warning that the UN can only sustain its current aid efforts for one year.
This is after a war, I think about the future of these children? they need help to start again -- Peace love- Namaste-Clicia

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