Successful travelers on the path of love are those whose love is so beautiful that it provides all the beauty that their ideal lacks. In time the lover rises above the changeable and limited beauty of the beloved. The lover will then begin to see into the beloved’s inner being; in other words the exterior of the beloved was only a means of drawing the love out of the heart of the lover, but the love led the lover from the external to the innermost being of the ideal of the lover’s love. When in the ideal the lover has realized the unlimited and perfect Being, whether it is love for human or God/Goddess, the lover is in fact in either case a blissful lover.
In Tantra we see woman as the dynamic force and man as consciousness. In ancient time man worshiped woman to activate her dynamic energy, and when her dynamic self is invoked, her compassionate side becomes filled with love for her God (man). For the soul to return home both woman and man have to first be united as one, unlike in to-days world of individuality, sustainable love is no existent, thus lacking the joy for life. Life with lack of love introduces stress and aloneness into one’s life. During the training we help free your soul of all past impressions, thus feeing the soul to use the heart to experience true love. Past impressions that limits the soul also infect the cells, thus promoting all form of emotional illness.