Do We Need to Feel Pain to Know Love? Can We Love Without Feeling Pain?

( this vid may be to loud for some people, so you might wish to turn volume down)


This is a question I think so many of us have asked. Yes, when we open
our hearts to Love others, we are risking having it crushed. Love is NOT
just shiny words,it is the most important emotion we have.
Is Loving worth risking being hurt? I for one truly believe absolutely -Yes!
So what are your thoughts? Do you think we as Humans can feel Love
without some pain? Can we have one emotion without the other? I think to
truly give love to others can be at times painful,and it is worth
having the pain too. But that does not mean that love SHOULD be
painful,only that it can be at times,
I know many might disagree with me on this. So many here focus on LOVE.
Bantering the words and pretty pictures and phrases around like a
"Hello" Do you truly feel Love when you say" I love you" to a friend ?
I know I do. I do not say so if I do not "Feel" it.
Sometimes and several times here on iPeace I have been hurt by people I gave my love
to,but does the pain of it mean I no longer care? No. It doesn't. That's
why it is painful. Because the Love is still present,even if the friend
or person is not,or does not return it.
Like most people, I understand and know their are many many different types,ways and levels of love.

Which leads to my next thought or question.
As people discuss and debate unconditional love here and on these networks. Do you know what unconditional Love is?
To me it is to give Love freely without fear of pain or placing expectations on another.
Of course to be loved in return certainly does make it more enjoyable :D

Just some thoughts that I have had rattling around in my head .....