Mother and Child
The relationship with our mother is our most complex attachment.
She was there before we were aware that we existed. She sheltered our lives and nourished us through the umbilical cord.
There are no limits and the child live in a symbiotic relationship with his/her mother. A symbiosis that continues even after birth. It is obvious that this creates the strongest attachment of them all.
Desperate are the mother and child connected which create ambivalent ties.
Already through the breast milk, perhaps even through the umbilical cord, the child will have access to a mother of both "good" and "evil" by that ”mother archetype” she constitute for her child.
In consequence the ambivalence to the physical mother often becomes greatly
A duality that may be hard to handle for both mother and child..
It is often the first and sometimes the last word we say is: Mom. She is the beginning and the end by the immense power that she has is capacity also of ”the great mother” and her archetypal energy .
A part that in all probability no living mother can live up to.
But in the child's world and even for many adults Mother Earth, is around which, as they in ancient times believed, all the other planets are spinning. So even the sun, as in the myths symbolise our father, who with his power and energy gives life and warmth to Mother Earth.
Our mother is the soil where our talents to grow or atrophy is entirely depending on the nutritional care the small plant will have. So we are vulnerable
Many children plants seeking convulsively to detain in the crumbs of earth they have been assigned to, grow despite all odds, blow themselves up through the asphalt if necessary. They are our, in Swedish called ,”maskrosbarn” (dandelion child)
Others die from that malnutrition. Some feel uncomfortable to have been fattened up
So there is the group whose "Earth" has been "good enough"
As mothers we don’t need to be any more than humans. We can never live up to the myth of ourselves anyway. We have to be satisfied with just being "good enough"
We had no chance to choose our soil. We had to make the best of the offered
But never the less how little fuel there was , for most of us Mum is always Mum.
Precisely because the relationship is so associated with the greatest of myths, riddles and mysteries; The emergence of life.
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Permalink Reply by Clicia Pavan on
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gunilla
Friend thank you for your contribution to Gaia, very good your text
much love and peace
As each station is preparing to face the nature, we also must be prepared to experience spring, autumn and winter
The mind is energy, and generates energy, healthy energy, which balances our thoughts.
We have the resources, tools and have the ability to overcome our difficulties at all.
be wise, we must prepare our children so that they can face the world and the odds --- --- To be themselves
"There are no limits and that the child live in a symbiotic relationship with his mother. A symbiosis which continues even after birth."
Namaste
gunilla
Amigo gracias por su contribución a Gaia, muy bueno tu texto
mucho amor y la paz
Como cada estación se está preparando para hacer frente a la naturaleza, también debemos estar preparados para la experiencia de primavera, otoño e invierno
La mente es la energía, y genera energía, la energía saludable, que los saldos de nuestros pensamientos.
Tenemos los recursos, herramientas y tienen la capacidad para superar nuestras dificultades en absoluto.
ser sabios, debemos preparar a nuestros niños para que puedan enfrentar el mundo y las probabilidades --- --- para ser ellos mismos
"No hay límites y que el niño vive en una relación simbiótica con su madre. Una simbiosis que continúa incluso después del nacimiento."
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Permalink Reply by gunilla caisson on
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So many interesting questions wendy *smile'* really something for all of us to reflect upon *smile*
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Yes Clicia " ...we must prepare our children so that they can face the world and the odds ..."
But do we give the children the time needed to be prepared? It is such a stress-f illed world... -
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gunilla
Child with a good training in childhood, love, affection, limits, is sure to be an adult safer and independent .... Childhood is the foundation for a lifetime ---- let children be children
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Permalink Reply by GOPI KANTA GHOSH on
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Our crisis starts when we ignore mother...
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To Gopi
Yes "Mother" is such a large concept. Cover much more then just our biological one. So ignoring "her" is ignoring life... -
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Permalink Reply by PHILOXENIA on
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Hi Gunilla!
EVERYTHING BEGINS HERE
MOTHER GAEA "The Great Mother of all"
Life is a dream to work on!
Earth Spirit
Nautilus © Josephine Wall, Mother Earth - Pan and his flutes
Click above
Life! Where did we come from? Where are we going? Out of the vastness of space a sequence of events beginning with the tiniest of life forms ignites the spiral of evolution. Through fish, plants, animals and birds the path eventually leads to mankind. A pool of life bringing water cascades from the treetops to form a pathway to a bright and hopeful future.
EXHIBITION I - Paintings by Josephine Wall (with her permission)
Josephine Wall
Greetings from Greece
Enjoy SECRET LOVE
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Mother Gail for the planet, "Mother Svea" is for Sweden and then the individual Mother for every child that is born. They have all much in common.
Create life and feed it via the "umbilical cord" that can symbolize much of the world`s and a country's natural resources -
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World will be peaceful if relationship between mother and child is proper....a child grown with mother's affection can not be violent...
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yes it is such an important relationship for our development on so many levels...
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Thanks...
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Such a lovely picture *smile*
Everywhere in nature we see theses strong attachments -
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