Dispelling Drama... true love burns brighter than sunshine

Dispelling Drama... true love burns brighter than sunshine


There are scores of people in the world who seem to be magnets for calamity. They live their lives jumping from one difficult problematic relationship to another, surrounded by unstable individuals. Some believe themselves victims of fate and decry a universe and a God they regard as malevolent. Others view their chaotic circumstances as just punishments for some failing within. Yet, in truth, neither group has been fated or consigned to suffer. They are likely unconsciously drawing drama into their lives, attracting catastrophe through their choices of friends, attitudes, and patterns of thought. Failing to address the underlying reasons that create Drama, however disastrous, can be exciting and stimulating and addictive. They will hold onto friends that bring this addiction to them, they may allow others to manipulate them through their emotions.But the thrill of pandemonium eventually begins to frustrate the soul and drain the energy of all who embrace it. To halt this process, we must understand the root of our drama addiction, be aware of our reactions, and be willing to accept that a serene, joyful life need not be a boring one, that we do not have to hold onto addictive people that cause drama within our relationships and within our personal lives.

Many people, so used to living in the dramatic world they create, feel uncomfortable when confronted with the prospect of a lifetime of peace and contentment. They fear to let go of those that cause emotional harm to them, clinging onto the addiction which upsets them, prompting the body to manufacture adrenaline, which produces a pleasurable surge of energy. For those seeking affection in the form of sympathy, drama forms the basis of their identity as a victim. And when drama is familial, many people believe they can avoid abandonment by continuing to play a key role in the established family dynamic. The addiction to drama is fed by the intensity of the feelings evoked during uncertainty and upheaval.

Understanding where the subconscious need for drama stems from is the key to addressing it effectively. Journalling can help you transfer this need from your mind onto a benign piece of paper. It can cause you to take a look at the relationships you make with destructive people. After repeated writing sessions, your feelings regarding the mayhem, hurt feelings, and confusion often associated with drama become clear. When you confront your emotional response and need to cling onto to drama and the purpose it serves in your life, you can reject it, it is fine to reject those that cling to you in order to create pain in your life. Each time you consciously choose not to take part in dramatic situations or associate with dramatic and jealous people, If you feel that you have gathered people around you that are not as they appear it is time to let go of all that do not serve your greater good. By doing this you create space in your inner being that is filled with a calm and tranquil stillness and becomes an asset in your quest to lead a more centred and healed life.


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