Love Is The Answer
by Mark Maxwell
It’s all about love. It may seem trite to say,
but its true. Love is where it’s at.
What do you want to do in life? It goes easier
with love in your heart. Want better relationships,
or a better family life? Make sure love is in your heart.
Trying to do a better job at work? Do it with love.
Trying to make a difference in anything? Start by
finding love. Is there pain in your life that needs
mending? Love is what heals.
Are you lonely; still looking for that special
someone? Love will find a way.
In a world of pain and anguish, of seemingly
endless problems and crises, love is so often
forgotten or overlooked. In times of national crisis
does anyone advocate love and forgiveness?
And how often do you, when faced with
interpersonal conflict, remember to keep love
in your heart for the person you are facing?
This, of course, is not to say that love alone will solve
all problems. But it is to say that all approaches to any
problem will always resolve quicker and easier and
will lead toward healing when love is consciously present.
Violence does not stop violence; it only breeds more
violence. Period. The scars born of violence do not
go away; rather, they fester and return in kind.
Love dissipates violence. Not always immediately,
but always eventually. This is why the most powerful
advocates for peace are the most vocal advocates
for love. We need only look at leaders like Mahatma
Gandhi and Martin Luther King, who both advocated
nonviolent protest and loving the enemy, to see that
armies may be conquered and systematic repression
can be stopped with the use of long-term campaigns
of love, kindness, and forgiveness.
Again, this is not to say that love alone is a panacea,
a magic pill that cures all. It is only to say that all methods
and plans for positive change will always work better
when there is an undercurrent of conscious loving energy.
Love is the one thing that is universally revered as being
good for us all, and yet, with tragic consequence, it is so
often ignored as a technique for change. Indeed, finding
and keeping love in our hearts is the only way to
consistently promote and effect healing, on both
a personal and a national level.
It is fear that drives us to violence, as individuals and
as nations. It takes courage to look beyond that fear
and to consider that forgiveness and acceptance are
necessary elements in any healthy relationship,
whether it’s between two people or between two
cultures. Fear pushes away; love brings together.
Love is the universal element that can be used in
any situation where positive change is needed.
It is not the only element, but is the element
that can be used anytime, anywhere.