THE WORD IS LOVE - RELATIONSHIP GAMES

When you are in a relationship, be it marriage, a partner, no matter, a relationship that involves 2 people sharing their lives together and then comes trouble, one of you are going to be stronger emotionally than the other.

We are ruled by emotions, not intellect when it comes to love. True love. If you are IN love with someone, you think with your heart and never with your head, so when that BOOM comes, and he/she breaks your heart, or starts to break it by beginning to hurt you, you will find yourself in a place of gloom, loss and pain. What do you do? Your intellect falls away completely, and your instincts will be shaky. You will want to grab the person and beg them to go back in time to when you were happier, or to forgive you for 'whatever' it is that you did, in fact, you will do pretty much anything to make the situation "safe" and "happy" and "loving" again.

I call this the "scavenger" stage. The Wolf - being the one who is now in charge and calling all the shots feels fine. he/she is not really affected, as whatever he/she has up her/his sleeve is keeping her/him calm and collected and even happy! But you, the "scavenger" are begging for scraps. Desperate, and unwanted. NOW is the time you take your power back! Now is the time you need to call for help. Now is when you change from "scavenger" to rising up and claiming your rightful place again. What a feeling!

Too many people are suffering from abusive relationships that make them feel inferior. I believe that there are many keys to fixing this and this is what I teach. No one leaves my teaching without feeling better, self empowered and stronger. You matter as a child of this universe and no one has the right to make you feel inferior. Remember however that people can only make you feel inferior with your permission. You need to learn that! In saying this however, it's easy to make such a statement if I am not crying under my duvet. If you are crying under your duvet, there is a loving ear to listen and a very strong mind and voice to help. You are not alone.

This is not an advert. I've been asked by a few people what I do and so here I am explaining it. I am sick of this world ripping into people who suffer. We need to help people who suffer not charge them to help them with money they don't have.

I propose that we here at ipeace set up a foundation and we put money into it for those in need of counselling. We do need to be paid, but not fortunes unless it's to people who have the correct money. for those less flush lets help them.

Isn't that what love is all about?