A few steps in the path of a peace warrior. ( thank you Krystyna Postawa )

I would like to start this blog, by first stating for those who may have made a connection to some of my earlier writings and mention of my leaving iPeace, this person and incidence given in this example, was/is not the cause for my leaving here (if I do so), nor is it (she) the cause for what is said in http://www.ipeace.me/group/15000stories

I had an issue, after I offered friendship with Krystyna, that is in more detail in her blog
http://www.ipeace.me/profiles/blogs/thank-you-tree-thunderchild

I felt hurt, and that I may have been deceived into who I was being friends with,
I brought this to the attention of Krystyna and explained to her why I felt this way, and she very soon afterwards removed her discussion (which was not what I had asked of her, only that she site the 3rd party who's content it was so I could KNOW who I was extending friendship to).

Now.... in this example, I had an issue with someone here on the site, I PRIVATELY addressed this issue with this person (though I also felt it pertinate to bring it to the attention to 2 others "privately", who may have also been affected), who then made, and based on her blog, is still making efforts to correct these things.
I did not get angry, I did no post her name all over the place, I kept it private to work this out, and she in turn, has been taking steps ( which I would feel are taking her time and effort to do! ) to remedy my misunderstanding.
This shows, no ill intention, and is something she is doing, not due to any pressure (because I kept it private), but simply wanting to do right.

Now, even IF someone had done something, in the interest of promoting themselves or this site, wrongfully...
Or had done evil here on this site (or elsewhere), when they make ANY EFFORT, to correct it, or do what is right, FOCUS on that !!!!!!!!!!!!
Not the past that may have caused harm, but the HEALING that they wish to bring !!!!!

Have non of us ever, done wrong?
Even if not intentionally?
What about those who do wrong INTENTIONALLY?
If we wish them to change doing so, the INSTANT that they show ANY indication of effort to do RIGHT,

PRAISE THEM FOR IT !

For how can another change, if we hold the past against them?
If we, become an environment, that reflects back only what negative we may have seen,
HOW can they change, if any effort made to do so, is IGNORED ?

While Krystyna and I are a very minor reflection of this (and I always assume innocence FIRST)
Taken to a more extreme, and clearly wrongful intended actions of a person,
do we not wish for there to be change?

It would be like, if EVIL were to come to this site.
Yes it could be "banned", but would that be the best path to take?
Or would bringing HEALING to evil, to HELP it to CHANGE into something positive (or simply more positive),
be the path we wish to take?

In this way, evil could, very truthfully, come to peace.

If we LET it, and OFFER it a path to do so !

Pointing out wrong is an easy thing to do, as is finding fault with another,
But take care not to do so, without also, OFFERING a solution.
Or you (we/I) only focus on the negative, and that, is then what grows also, in the person we are dealing with,
by forcing THEM to focus on it also, instead of the SOLUTION.

May there be peace,
and may we as peacekeepers and warriors of light,
learn from each other, these ways, to help make it REALITY.

I thank you Krystyna, for while what you did in the past, may have been done in innocence, by taking these steps to correct what I felt was wrong, and bringing us to peace with each other,
your actions in the path of peace,
allow me to give this example,
by your honor, of peace, and willingness to do work to help make that happen,
of your own free will, and desire, for truth, and peace.

And again, for those who may have felt there was a connection of this issue between Krystyna and myself, as being the cause for my possibly leaving iPeace,
NO, it was not because of this issue.
It is a matter between my creator, and others who are on this site.
And it is a powerful issue, with my creator.
Enough to make me tremble!
And I would rather remove myself from this site,
than to see what befalls those, who would abuse his name, of PEACE.

I love this world,
Enough to be born to it, at his request, to help bring peace,
in the names of those who have yet to even be born to this world.
That cause, is more important to me than my own life, let alone, being a member of this or any other site.

And I will protect that cause,
and all who love this world enough, to make any effort, to bringing peace to this world.

In true love,
your friend in peace.