We cannot always "shine"

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But that`s OK.. Admitting our sorrow and grief is a valuable step to a better world of honesty and truth

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Are these ”happy” assemblies, which many networks represent a risk for exclusion?

Yes… I think so. What happens, for example when a sadly past catch up with you or you suffer serious illness or grief?
Are you staying here than? To say what? I see no forum for them since the theory doesn’t exist. The theory of people in pain.
No since the theory is that we are all chosen our own happiness and by thinking in the right way, whatever happens we will stay happy and feeling blessed. But already on my short time on these networks I have met many who belonged to those who wanted to “shine” and did so and also non egotistically shared their belief with others.

That’s beautiful. But when the “Sorrow” trip a person up, and they cannot shine they stop writing. Many have send me letters so I know that. Now when they are needed us the most they do not stay so we can comfort them. That’s just too sad. I do feel for all these that thought that there only mission in life was to share the light and when they got caught by the shadows they feel ashamed instead of asking for our help. We do not even notice they are gone. New ”believers” will come and replace them.

This is the weakest link in the "shine and light" theory or shall I say religion. There is no place for sadness and sorrow. So that means when your light is gone you have to go too. Make me cry but also frustrated. As long as their spiritual battery keeps them shining they will be here but when it is spent they have to face their own darkness without a ray of light from us, the others.

Many people ought to use their own light to lighten up there own dark shadows instead of getting burned out by giving away ”borrowed ” rays of light. That doest benefit the peace in the world.

No... we must accept that there are dark periods in our lives and we must create space for these feelings so we who still has some energy in our batteries can shine for them who need it the most.
These Networks are not a church where we have to say ”Amen”. These fantastic opportunities to come together so many people must allow us to have different opinions and place for everyone. To learn understanding and broaden our horizons That will make us grow.
It must be ”high ceilings” in any ”faith” who want to survive.

We must search to enclose all not exclude. By making people understand that it is OK, as in this case, to stay in a shiny and brightening ”world” even if your own personal life is a hell.

We do understand. Or don’t we?

I have made this group for all of us who are working for a good purpose.; The peace
But dare to admit that life can be a terrible mess where we need the light of others because our own batteries are exhausted. and that is OK. We do not have to leave this "world" we just need ears to listen and eyes that can see.
After all we are just human *smile*

So welcome to the imperfect group that I am proud to belong to *smile*

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Comment by gunilla caisson on June 23, 2011 at 11:47pm: Welcome Mohammed Ameen

To join us in this group.

So Sorry that I cannot add a picture now. It must be my computer that has given up.

I will make it up to you once it works again *smile*

Comment by Apolonia on June 21, 2011 at 8:32pm

Comment by hussain jack M. on June 21, 2011 at 8:27pm: Friends are very special people who accept
each other with unconditional caring. They

Recognize each other's talents and faults, and
acknowledge them without judgment.

They are Incapable of turning away when times
are tough and life's problems seem hard to bear.

Instead, they Encourage each other so they can
enjoy the good times and find strength to endure the

bad times. They're Never afraid to say what
they feel and can be honest without causing

hurt or pain. They can Depend on each other
because they have the kind of trust

that allows them to Share the best and
worst of their lives with laughter and without fear.

You are one of these special people,
and I'm glad to have you as my friend.

Comment by Apolonia on June 21, 2011 at 11:32am

Comment by Apolonia on June 12, 2011 at 7:26pm

Comment by kenneth alfsson on June 8, 2011 at 4:25pm: This shall Michael Wasberg have all the credit for .... Michael aka * The King * Wasberg has worked with me against child abuse and pornography on intenternet several years, a few days ago he was the reason a page on the internet get CLOSED! The page contained the little girls in sexy lingerie ..... THANK YOU Michael Wasberg:) WELL DONE!!

Comment by GOPI KANTA GHOSH on June 7, 2011 at 10:09am: Thanks

Comment by kenneth alfsson on June 7, 2011 at 10:00am: Gloden heart in the childs love will never stop shine in the happy smile´s when the play....

The fake happiness destroy the soul and take away the smile of the child and make the golden heart dark and it will stop smile....

The scary truth will never make our inner child smile if we dont fight for it!!!